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Permalink Reply by DiaryDiscussions on July 26, 2012 at 12:40pm

I believe that people can change in life and they always deserve second chances. With that said, 14 years is an extremely long time for someone to be away so it's important you know exactly what you're dealing with before you get involved with someone like this.

If you believe this person is worth getting to know and that he has learned and grown since his past experiences, that's cool. Give them a chance but if you sense any signs that his past is affecting his present, you must acknowledge the red flags and leave. Don't be blinded by your affections and miss the signs of someone who's violent, dangerous, unstable, etc. 

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Permalink Reply by Nice Lady on July 26, 2012 at 2:50pm

@DiaryDiscussions thanks alot 

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Permalink Reply by Goddess on July 27, 2012 at 8:55am

Good Advice @diarydiscussions because I gave a guy a 2nd chance at that & found out real quic that he had a lot of anger and wasn't able to get a job. I prob stayed longer than I shudda but I finally realised it wasn't right for me & I cud nt change him

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Permalink Reply by Nice Lady on July 27, 2012 at 1:09pm

@diarydiscussions Well i told him today that we just have to take things slow and see how it goes. Thanks for the advice am sure watching my back lol.

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Permalink Reply by Shoe Lover on August 9, 2012 at 9:43pm

Here is a bit of advice from experience. I'm currently dating a guy who also did time in prison. You could have never tell by his looks alone bc the way he can wear a suit but anyways I found that him being in prison caused some concern but in reality right now is the least of my problems. I realized the way he treats me out weighs everything else. He has a decent job and he makes money honestly. So I say go for it but make sure to take it slow because I found out we have other issues that dont surround his past.

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