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Reply StaceyAnn

07:30 PM on December 29, 2010 

It is sad that the men who are in so called committed relationships and even worse married men blatantly offer me dates and gifts. It makes me wonder, can a man be faithful? It is alright to flirt, but when you have other intentions that are more than being friendly, there's a problem. I heard from women who have been married for 20+ years and they know that their husbands has cheated in the past and they say that every man cheats. I'm starting to believe them.

Reply LovelyTee

07:50 PM on December 29, 2010 

lol shit if there are any faithful men out there, there almost extinct. in this society it's the norm for men to have a main woman and a chick on the side. i dont trust any men at the current moment. ive been married and had my husband cheat on me and when asked why when i was doing everything a wife should be doing...he answered:greed. its really sad when you have alot of women turning to women becuase of the infidelity of men. i tend to keep looking because i hate to believe that all men are the same but unfortunately thats all ive been running into as well. age doesn't seem to matter, men just have to really be willing to have sex with one woman for a long period of time and some men just cant handle the temptation...

Reply DD.Burrell

12:12 AM on December 30, 2010 

Damn... I only hope we have a few good men out there. But my thing is, dont stop looking till you find him. I believe its possible, I know maybe a few. And in my world, its not the norm to have main chicks and side chicks. Greed is a desire we all have but most of us know how to control it. Why cant they??

Reply Sincere

10:18 AM on December 30, 2010 

It is hard for most men to be faithful because most men lack moral strength. It takes a strong man to be faithful to his women. With the media, peers and social examples it's hard to be strong in moments of weakness. Most men aren't perceptive enough to see other women's advances for what they are, ADVANCES. Instead they see them as friendly gestures, until theses friendly gestures become more and more sexually suggestive until it's too late. Infidelity in our society has a strong past and an ever present future. It is our job to find partners (they exists) that are strong morally and not dismiss the WARNING signs of a CREEPER.

Reply Dainty

01:44 AM on January 02, 2011 

mmm mmm..wow @ u ladies. I appreciate ya honesty on here. love it* I think that men have the ability it's just that some men are really effed up and don't care enough to stay faithful. They don't care that they have a sexy woman at home who cooks, cleans, takes care of the munchkins and finds the time to LOOK GOOD. But I just want to add this: if that man cheats, it's NOT YOU it's HIM. Think about it....how many men do see at work, or in the store, or that hot guy on the dance floor while your out with the girls but yet you still don't flirt or exchange numbers? Okay so that means, even though you are doing your part as a girlfriend or wife he may choose to cheat because he has the ability to be faithful but he does not want to.

Reply Dana

09:07 PM on January 15, 2011 

Absolutely men definatly have the ability to be faithful. I believe cheating derives from one of the reasons, plain old selfishness or simply a lack of self control. i think the issue is so many women in their life have accepted it as a constant to where it's been deemed acceptable.. jus think bout this if every woman left their man for cheating and it was intolerable those men would learn the hard way and absolutely change their ways. it's a two way street!

Reply Nate Da Great

09:47 PM on January 28, 2011 

Hmmm, with my experience the married women never get caught so please be mindful that cheating is not exclusive to one sex. If you're going to suggest that men can't be faithful let's go find these chicks that are going to all star weekend soon or CIAA in Charlotte, NC. Keep it real. PEOPLE cheat not just men.

Had to stand up for the faithful brothaz!!

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